[Remcy MongrueParticipant]

Wow i thought I was the only one who struggled with perfectionism. I am just like that never thinking that what I’m doing is good enough. However I have another fear and that is that my product/service may be too future oriented. For example when I created my membership program I searched the internet for programs/memberships that were similar to mine and i did not find anything even close. Now on one hand I say wow that’s great because I’m the only one doing something like this so I’m innovative but on the other hand innovate ideas tend to fail more often than not because people do not like or understand change. So I feel like maybe this idea won’t work out.

It leads to me not taking any action at all and then of course there is the fact that not everyone is going to like your product or service which will lead me to thanking that everyone hates it and that what I thought was great is actually garbage.
It’s just so confusing and depressing sometimes i just want to throw in the towel and forget about this business thing all together.
Sometimes i think i’m just not meant to be an entrepreneur and that I should just stick to a miserable 9-5 job at least it’s a bit easier.

[Remcy MongrueParticipant]

You may be unto something there. I shortened it just to make space but perhaps underneath the tab I will put High achievement club with some info on what the program is. i just finished a video on the intro week 1 training and what to expect. I’ll be uploading it soon so people get a better view on what to expect from each weeks training.

[Remcy MongrueParticipant]

H.A.C. stands for High achievement Club.It’s the name of the membership. My overall goal is to help people develop a “rock-solid mindset” for achieving their goals. I’ll make a video on it and post in in the membership area later today but i don’t want people to have the following regret at the end of their life

“i wish i lived a life true to myself instead of what others expected of me”

[Remcy MongrueParticipant]

thanks everyone for your responses. i’ll try to answer them one by one, This is the link in case anyone missed it

https://selfmasterywithin.com/secretsignup/

1. @leslie I read your comments and i do think I’ll make a video with a synopsis of what that week’s training is
2. @leslie The over arching goal is to help people develop a mindset for achieving their goals using the 4 techniques (I’ll talk about that)
3. @leslie The intro to emotional detachment with the questions is just for reflection as I believe we have to look at ourselves first
4. @leslie I didn’t know anyone could hear the candy I’ll reshoot it like you said and in the upcoming webinar I explain how all 4 techniques are needed in developing a “rock solid mindset” for goal achievement. the other weeks dive deeper into certain aspects of the 4 techniques
5.@suzanne Yes i had a problem in the past where i had to block the registration page because i kept running into unwanted members, Yes i will have paypal setup so that they go to paypal first and then are redirected to the signup page
6.@suzanne i’ll look into that I am trying to create kind of a content site, maybe I’ll change it to a tip of the week instead
7 @Bruce yeah I’m still a noob I went about this all wrong i should have just put the secret sign up page since the beginning that way no one has to post their e-mail address but i was not thinking about it at the time. The link is above so it won’t be an issue
8@Sean yep my fault that’s fixed the link on my post will take them to the sign up page where they can sign up and create their usernames/passwords again i apologize I wasn’t thinking about it at the time
9@suzanne I think you signed up, you should’ve had an email, it might be in the spam folder though, but you should be able to login now,
I was at work today so I didn’t have time to respond until I came home. yeah the admin thing is just a test i’ll change it later

Wow that’s a lot of writing anyway thanks to everyone who has helped me in this process so far. I am taking it one step a a time and appreciate all the feedback. thanks again everyone

[Remcy MongrueParticipant]

thank you I saw the email that you signed up. Yeah the site is slow I’m going to have wpfixit clean it up.
I was at work today so I was not home majority of the time.
on that note I have to approve each member manually I’ll fix that one too
thank you for your time all should be good and you should be able to login now.

[Remcy MongrueParticipant]

oh man leslie, you just helped me kill 2 birds with one stone!!!!

1st I don’t have to unblock the registration and activation pages
2nd When I start enrolling members I can just redirect from paypal to the “secret sign up” page.

I cannot thank you enough leslie if it wasn’t for your comment I would have never thought of this and this is something I was dreading for weeks
(sometimes membership software can be verrrry complicated)

Now I’m pumped I am planning a webinar soon and this was one of the “details” i wanted to avoid, well not anymore It’s finally solved, thank you so much man again thank you. anyway for anyone that wants to check out the membership the link is above I eagerly await any comments or suggestions on the training, please be honest what you like about it and what can be improved. and leslie thanks again.

[Remcy MongrueParticipant]

thank you I had an issue when i first started this membership with people becoming members that i did not know. This was last year
(It was happening constantly like everyday) and i thought my website was getting hacked, long story short i had to block the registration and activation pages.

I thought about what you said for some time leslie and i believe I have found a way to circumvent this
I have created a “secret Sign up” page where everyone can register.

Try this URl and see if this works https://selfmasterywithin.com/secretsignup/

It should work I just tried it with a test email and it was successful.

Thank You soooooo much Leslie you just helped me move past a fear that I have had.

I apologize in advance to everyone who thinks I might be doing this to collect emails. I just wanted to avoid unblocking the registration pages so that problem does not happen again. Well the link is above and it works so if anyone is still interested you can use the link above and register at your pace. Thanks again Leslie

[Remcy MongrueParticipant]

So if everyone could just post the following i would greatly appreciate it : D

1. Your username (only for people who want
2. Your password (only for people who want
3. Your email address (required for membership)

For those of you who do not want to create a username or password that’s fine I’ll just make your username your first name and your password your last name plus two numbers.

But I do require an email address for me to create a member

[Remcy MongrueParticipant]

i just finished editing my profile thanks Norma

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Norma Allen

[Remcy MongrueParticipant]

sorry to ask this but I’m going to need your email addreses to add you to the membership.

Don, Norma and Leslie. I forgot when I was creating your memberships it wouldn’t let me continue without a proper email address.

Feel free to make up an email address or use which one suits you best.

Sorry for that in advance

[Remcy MongrueParticipant]

Hey, I’m interested in the same niche, nice to met you leslie,

1. you could look at self-development websites, lifehacker, zen habits, success.com (type in google top self-developement websites) and see what the top sites are doing that is your competition, i know it’s going to be hard but try to see if these websites are missing something that you could offer.
2 you could type a question in google that you have been pondering or think someone might be think of and see if anyone has a solution to it
(example: Why is the number one regret among the dying “I wish I lived a life true to myself instead of what others expected of me”)
oh man you will find a lot info just by doing that alone in forums,group chat etc. perhaps you could think of answer if even a basic one and start from there and expand it into a course, training etc,
3. Government websites also help a lot actually such as (bureau of labor statistics, and the census bureau) and looking at statistics of what people are having problems with versus what people excel in, actually you can use this in line with step 2 to create a product,
4. look at amazon for top selling personal development books and see what the synopsis is about. this may give you an idea of what you can focus on or you could combine ideas from 3-5 top selling books and create a basic product outline and expand from there.

These are some of the tips I’ve learned over the years on how to create a product, time spent? depends on how busy you are.
hope that helps.

[Remcy MongrueParticipant]

well i’m very interested in the accountability concept, wow the skype idea sounds awesome also what bruce said is important too. I’m no expert at this but it will be interesting to see how this turns out

i feel like you gain a different perspective when you talk to someone who is in a different niche than yours or even someone in the same niche as everyone thinks differently, Actually I think bruce is unto something perhaps having the accountability being niche specific would be good for sharing of ideas. I mean i think someone who is in the same niche as you would usually have more interest than vice versa.

[Remcy MongrueParticipant]

awesome Don and Norma thank you for your reply appreciate it, well the website is http://www.selfmasterywithin.com

just post if you want to create a unique username and password such as

username:remcy88
password: Odysseyy99

otherwise I’ll create your username and passwords for you, again thanks for your replies

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